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Many thanks Jerry,I know Ypres very well because for 12 years we lived in Ghent and often went to Ypres because the Church in Ghent and St.George`s Church in Ypres shared the same minister and we took my father to visit the cemetaries and memorials.When he died we got permission from the C.W.G.C to scatter his ashes at Hill 60. we know Zillebeke but not Zwarteleen-but we will find it!! How did you get all your information ?What I have found out about the family is H.A.B.st.G`s father was a land agent in Ireland but they were pretty well - heeled given the size and number of properties they had. His mother Evelyn or Florence Evelyn had an affair with an artist,secret at first but then quite open.In the list of events in her life there is no mention of the death of her second son even though there are other things listed for that year .Perhaps she no longer lived with her husband. In the N.Y.Times account of her father`s death it seems whilst his other children were at his bedside Evelyn is stated as being at her house in England but they may have been estranged because she did not obey him when he asked her to finish the affair at the request of his grand daughter, Evelyn`s daughter- Gardenia I think. I shall find it interesting to see exactly who placed the stained-glass window to his memory in Zillebeke Church. I think I told you it was closed when we went. which came as a surprise to people in the T.I.Oin ypres.I am new to this computer lark as you will be able to tell and it is a source of great frustration to me that following information kindly sent to me via this site I am unable to obtain the photograph which exists of H.A.B.St.Gand and is most likely the one on the book I was too daft to buy when I first saw it in Ypres, but my daughter has a safe account and she is endeavouring to get it for me.I am beginning to feel more and more sorry for this lad. my dad was only just 19 when he went to the front and only 8 months later was taken prisoner for the rest of the war but it very probably saved his life but because of an untreated head wound-depressed fracture- he suffered from epilepsy for nealy20 years and then the siezures stopped and he and mum got married when they were nearly 40 so I know a lot about the trenches etc.We have taken our granndchildren to Ypres and hope to take them to the Somme and of course our own children were frequent visitors because we went so often to Ypres. Anyway thank you again I am most grateful.Viktoria.